Growing up it always seemed to me that not everyone gets their “happily-ever-after”. There are relationship of good and bad that can shape how you view commitment and your understanding of a soul-mate. I know not everyone believes in soul-mates however there are times your soul is shaken to its core when you come across someone so special its undeniable.
Your 1st Love:
This love happens when you are young. Infatuation and a strong crush takes hold. Butterflies in your stomach. Can’t stop thinking about them. Can’t stop smiling. Girls may write their first name with the others last name with hearts around it. Boys may start making special time for this person. You truly think this is your love forever and life is complete. For some, its true. But for others, you eventually grow apart and call it quits over something stupid. When you get older you may look back and think it wasn’t love but in all honestly it was. At that time in your life at that age, you were truly in love. It was love for what you knew it to be.
Your 2nd Love:
This is the hard one. You get hurt with this love. This love teaches you a lesson and makes you stronger. This love includes great pain, lies, betrayal, abuse, drama and damage. But this is the one where we grow. You realize what you love about love and what your don’t love about love. The learn what unhealthy love is. You may even marry this love. But it’s not meant to be. Now you know the difference between a good human and a bad human. You are more careful, closed and cautions and even considerate. You have insight to yourself and know exactly what you want and what you don’t want.
Your 3rd Love:
This one comes blindly. No warning. It creeps on you silently. You don’t go looking for this love but it finds you so unexpectedly. You put up your cautious walls from the 2nd love but no matter how high you make them, they will come crumbling down. You find yourself thinking and caring about this person with no effort. They look nothing like your usual crush types, but you get lost in their eyes every day. You see beauty in their imperfections. You hide nothing from them. You want marriage and a family with them. You thank the universe for them. You truly LOVE them.